Breaking up is never easy, but it is sometimes necessary. 😓 If a relationship isn’t healthy anymore and both parties can’t make it work 💔, breaking up may be the only option. Breaking up over messages is often frowned upon 😮, but depending on the case and relationship, it can be acceptable or valid. 😕
If you're going to break up with your girlfriend, it’s best to do it in person 👥 so that you can communicate your feelings clearly 😔. However, if you’re apart or can’t see face-to-face, you can send break up messages for your girlfriend.
Just remember to communicate clearly even through SMS 📩 or social media DM 📲 so that you can hopefully keep your relationship civil and avoid hard feelings.
In this article, we're going to talk a bit about how to choose the right words 💬 to break up with your girlfriend and, then, show you a few template messages to use 📜. Hopefully, they'll serve as inspiration. If not, you can scroll down and try our generative AI 🤖 to create custom break up messages for your girlfriend!
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There can be a lot of reasons that you may choose to break up with your girlfriend. Maybe you’re not in agreement with a lot of things and it’s making the relationship toxic ☢️ and unhealthy 🤢 for you. Or maybe you’re in a long-distance relationship which you can’t make work anymore. For these reasons, breaking up may be difficult but necessary for both of you to move on and hopefully find healthy relationships. ⏩
You may also want to break up after finding out that your girlfriend was cheating. 😮 This can be an easier breakup since she hurt you, but it will still take some effort to break up with someone you once loved (and despite everything, you may love yet). 😭
You may like to read: The 12 Best Break Up Messages For When It's Time to End a Relationship
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In the same way, if you don’t feel the same love for your girlfriend anymore 💔, it’s best to tell her as soon as possible so as not to keep her hoping that things will get better. No matter the reason, breaking up can be tricky 🧩 since you have to consider both of your feelings and minimize the pain as much as possible.
When you’re going to break up with your girlfriend, whether you’re doing it in person or over text, you have to ensure that you’re getting your point across 🎯. It’s best to avoid beating around the bush 🌿 so that your girlfriend understands where you’re coming from and why you’re breaking up with her.
At the same time, you must consider her feelings by choosing your words carefully ⚠️ so as not to unnecessarily hurt her. It’s therefore crucial to choose the right words 🖊️ when you think of your break up message to your girlfriend.
Want to keep the flame alive 🔥? Try sending good morning love messages 🌞 to your girlfriend instead.
Whether you’re breaking up with your girlfriend for something positive 👍 such as to allow both of you to grow individually or because of something negative like she hurt you 🆖, the most important thing is that you communicate your feelings. Be clear 💎 and honest 💁 about why you want to break up.
If you want to hurl hurtful words at her for hurting you, we’re not going to stop you! Just make sure that what you’re saying is ultimately for your best so that you can move on without hard feelings or guilt. 🪨
As much as possible, it’s great if you can keep your break up messages for your girlfriend polite 👔. Even if you’re ending your romantic relationship, there is still the chance that you can be friends in the future if you remain polite and sensitive to her feelings.
If you’re breaking up over text, don’t forget to consider the timing of sending your break up message to your girlfriend. Avoid sending it during a workday 💼 or a time when you know she’s doing something ⛹️♀️ and your message may distract her. Being considerate will not only benefit her but will also give you peace of mind in knowing that you are not intentionally hurting her (even if she hurt you!).
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Writing break up messages for girlfriend does not only apply if you’re breaking up over SMS or social media DM. You can also write break up messages to gather your thoughts before talking in person! This will help your messages be more polite and you to communicate your feelings with greater accuracy. 🏹
We’ve listed below some break up messages for girlfriend that can help you get started. 📤
It pains me to say this, but our relationship is not working out anymore. I believe it will be best for us to part ways and start anew while focusing on ourselves. Thank you for all the memories I will surely treasure, and I am always wishing you well.
You’re clearly a great catch, but our vibes just don’t match that well. It would be best for us to end it now so that we won’t get hurt in the future. It’s been great spending time with you!
You’re the love of my life, but I think that it’s time for us to let go. We’ve hurt each other quite a lot and it would be healthier for us to heal separately. Remember that I’m always rooting for you, even from afar.
You’ve been my guiding light for the past months, and I can’t thank you enough for everything that you’ve done. I believe that now is the time for me to grow on my own and so I hope you understand why I’m asking to break up. I pray that you find love and joy in everything you do.
I never thought that you’d do this, but here we go. I don’t think I can quite forgive you for hurting me so I think it would be best that we just go our separate ways. Our memories will always be a part of me, and I wish you well in everything you do.
Hey, I’m sorry to be doing this over text but I think we should go our separate ways. We haven’t seen eye-to-eye recently and given that we haven’t reached a compromise, it’s not healthy for us to go on like this. Thank you for everything.
It’s been an awesome two years but I know that I’ve hurt you quite deeply so I’m letting you go. You deserve the love and peace that I’m unable to give you now. I’m sorry and I hope that you remember how you are always loved by a lot of people.
You were my best friend and my partner, and it hurts me to say this but I believe that it’s best for us to break up. We need time to grow separately so that we can reach our dreams. You’ve been nothing but supportive to me, but I think I need to do this on my own. I hope that someday, we can revive our friendship once again. For now, I wish you the best!
I guess this is goodbye. We’ve been trying to fix what we have to no avail, so I think we should start to move on. Thank you for all the fond memories I will surely treasure. Maybe someday, when we see each other again, we’ll be different people and we can start over again.
Thank you for being my partner all these years. I hope you understand that my breaking up with you is hopefully for our best. You will always be in my prayers and I will always be rooting for you. Goodbye.
You lifted me when I was at my lowest, and for that I will forever be grateful. However, I know that our long-distance relationship is already taking a toll on both of us, so I think it’s best that we break up. We both deserve a relationship that gives us comfort and this one isn’t it. Thank you for everything, and goodbye.
Thank you for all the early-morning park jogs and late-night movie dates. I don’t think my life will ever be the same, but I still believe that this is for the best. We can’t go on knowing that our love isn’t the same anymore, so I’m letting you go. You’ll always be a part of me.
Hard break up? Read yourself some positive messages 🙂 everyday to help go through it.
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Sure, you might not have found the best break up message for girlfriend above. 🙇 This is because each case is unique 🦄 and the context of your relationship may not be reflected in any of the templates we showed you.
Now, imagine if you could tell your history to a program 🗣️ and it would output as many break up messages for girlfriend as you want, each one tailored to your break up context? 🧐
This program exists 🤯, and we call it Olivia! 🙍♀️ Olivia is our AI message generator, optimized to create greetings, jokes, happy birthday messages, and, among a myriad of other things, break up messages! 💔
See what Olivia is capable of below:
Dear Tatiana, I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to talk about something that has been weighing on my mind for quite some time now. Over the past few months it has become evident that our relationship has hit a rough patch and despite our best efforts we haven't been able to find common ground or see eye to eye. It isn't easy for me to say this but I believe it's time for us to go our separate ways and follow our own paths. I truly cherish the time we've spent together and the memories we've created but it's apparent that we have grown apart. It wouldn't be fair to either of us to continue a relationship where we don't feel genuinely connected. Take care of yourself Tatiana and I genuinely hope that our paths will cross again whether it be as friends or simply in passing. Thank you for all the beautiful moments we shared and I wish you nothing but the best in your future endeavors. - Sincerely, Julia
Heather, we've had some wonderful moments together during our nearly year-long relationship but I can no longer ignore the glaring differences that lie between us. It pains me to say this but I don't believe we are meant to be together any longer. We have tried to bridge the gaps but the divide only seems to grow wider with time. It is unfair to both of us to continue in a relationship that lacks the fundamental compatibility necessary for its success. Please understand that this decision is not a reflection of your worth or character. You are an incredible person Heather and I cherish the moments we have shared. I genuinely believe that this break-up will ultimately lead us to find the happiness we both deserve with more suitable partners. Perhaps in time we can even remain friends. But for now please know that I am making this decision with a heavy heart believing it is what is best for both of us. Take care of yourself Heather. - Sincerely, Ryan
Dear Juniper, these past few weeks have been arduous for me as I have endured a pain that I never anticipated would come from you. I recall moments when we laugh together, but now the only thing I feel is sadness when I am with you. Something has shifted within you and I struggle to comprehend the reasons behind this change. My heart aches as I admit that I can no longer endure the strain that has poisoned our relationship. I can no longer continue being your boyfriend. This decision has weighed heavily upon me as I had hoped our love would withstand any tribulations we faced. Though our paths may diverge I wish you nothing but the best as you venture forth into the unknown. May you find the love and happiness that eluded us in our time together. Farewell Juniper. - Yours sincerely, Larry
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With growth comes difficulties, like having to break up with your partner whom you have grown quite apart from. Breaking up is a difficult necessity 😔, but knowing the right words 🖊️ to tell your partner when you break up is key 🔑 to keeping a friendly relationship. With the tips and messages above, you now have an idea of what to write or say to your girlfriend if you choose to break up.
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